The one we have always met and about whom we know everything good and bad seems to be of little value. Just as the price of a vegetable available found anywhere is low, so too is the price of a person found anytime in need. Sometimes we feel that even if he is not there, there is no problem or shortage for us. But when the person with such a need becomes distant or absent for ever, their value is greater. We need him and we need to find him.
There is still a system going on in our world. This is the law of nature. People live in relative harmony, forming families or establishing villages. A family consists of mother, father, brother, sister and grandparents. The village also has a number of cousins, aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. All days never pass in the same way. There is no end to the occasional crying, laughing, and suffering that goes on in a person’s life. Various problems and complex thoughts, various emotions, suffering and love are always present in the mind of a person from the time of his birth till his death.
While living, a person may view other people differently. For a man, someone is bad, someone is good, may be someone is an enemy, and someone is the best. Such choices in a person’s life are inevitable.
You may feel inferior to someone else while you are still alive. You may even forget to give him an appreciation. But only when he dies or permanently leaves this earth will you understand his worth or value. Sometimes you’ll remember him when something happens and need him. You will think that he would have been fine if he had been around. If you miss him during that time, you’ll have to express a lack of regret by thinking about his true value. Whether he was nearby or alive, I would think that I would not have suffered like this. You will remember and appreciate all his support, love and encouragement during that time.
We cannot overestimate the value of our parents. But when they leave you, you will cry for them. You will need a parent at this time. But there will come a time when you will never be able to find your parents again. You will feel sad by thinking about the importance of parents in life and will understand the true value of life.
None of us lives forever. No one will always have access to anything. Losing someone, regaining someone is the cycle of life. Sometimes you will have to do some big work alone where you will not be able to find anyone’s help or support. You won’t even find anyone offering encouragement or advice during that time.
So learn to be alone at certain times. To understand the true value of a person, you sometimes have to learn to stay away from people. You also don’t always have to be verbally available to explain your value to them. Sometimes they may come looking for you if they need you. All you have to do is receive them and talk to them and, if necessary, offer help, advice, and encouragement.